The world calls us to be “perfect” mothers, but I believe God calls us to be “balanced” mothers.
A “perfect” mother puts appearance above relationship. A “balanced” mother sacrifices appearance for relationship.
A “perfect” mother seeks approval from others. A “balanced” mother seeks approval from God.
A “perfect” mother finds reward in perceived success. A “balanced” mother’s reward is a peaceful heart, family and home.
A “perfect” mother perpetuates the lie and spreads disillusionment. A “balanced” mother breaks the lie and spreads hope, truth and inspiration.
~from Kat by Inspired Into Action
I try to remind myself DAILY that I am not here to impress neighbors, friends, strangers or family members but to honor God in all I do. Some areas are easier for me while others are not. I am learning to gently remind myself that it's not how fast the girls can decode their reading assignment, recite their addition facts or remain perfectly behaved in public. It's about the kindness they are showing to each other, strangers, friends and family. It's Anna looking at her bible before school this morning and asking where is heaven. It's Kate sharing her special treat with her sister and requesting prayer for safety as her daddy is traveling. To me that is perfection: gratifying and authentic.
However, the dark side of perfection likes to raise it's ugly head and put me off course. It can easily fill my head with lies and rattle my heart. So in order to stay focused I need direction, concrete direction for this type A personality. Hence my mission statement:
